Let me break some basic things down for you gentlemen. I know a few men, who visit the blog to get an insight on how women think, allow me to dish! I really wanted to touch on the topic of what makes a woman a gold digger because a few of you young minded fools have been far to quick too label a woman a gold digger for reasons that are no fault of hers, but rather YOURS.
Yup, I'm reflecting the blame off of her and onto you! Lets define a Gold Digger shall we...
gold digger
–noun
a woman who associates with or marries a man chiefly for material gain.
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Ah ha! So it goes to show you gentlemen you must prove that the intent was there before righteously demeaning her to the status of a gold digger. Men in no way take this as a slap on the wrist for using the word, as it should be applied in some cases. HOWEVER, when YOU approach her and pursue her so much so where your down right convincing her that spending time with you would be in her benefit. Only to introduce yourself to her as the guy who splurges on gifts and fine dining, and allow material things define you because you never gave her the chance to actually get to you know YOU, place the blame on you.
If you offer and she accepts that does NOT make her a gold digger, that just makes you a trick. Men have been using the term far too loosely to guilt women into feeling bad about themselves. Well ladies I'm here to let you know that YOU ARE IN NO WAY WRONG for overzealous showstopping behaviour.
