THIS has been one of the most controversial topics in many relationships, new boo vs ex boo. Posing the same question to my Twitter Followers (@MadeLaylaAdonia) the majority of them seem to not agree with remaining friends with exs, with the exception of few.
It would be AMAZING to have some sort of guide booklet letting us know what is appropriate in a relationship and what isn't, but there isn't, leaving us to figure this mess out for ourselves. It most definitely would be much simpler to just cut out ex's out of ones life but for most people it isn't, especially if you've shared a significant amount of time with that person.
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It's a sticky situation, but the answer also isn't to keep each ex close either, that would be extremely unfair to your new partner. Each ex needs to abide by a serious of rules...
1. Keep your hands to yourself
2. Kisses should not leave the cheek (on your face!)
3. Respect is in order for the current boo (meaning don't call them at 2:30AM just because you're up and bored)
4. Any ill willed intentions need to disappear or you need to vanish
5. Always include the new boo in any planned activities. By not doing so YOU just seem sketchy!
You also need to ask yourself if this was someone that you didn't feel comfortable around your significant other, would you find it to be acceptable for your boo is doing what you're trying to justify. If not, cut the ex loose! They're doing nothing but sabotaging your relationship, whether it's intentional or not.
Hope these help! For any additional rules, feel free to include!
