GENTELMEN it's not rocket science. If you look for basic qualities you're going to get a basic chick. There's much more to a woman than booty, boobies and her skills in the bed room (as important as it is to you). Talking to my single male friends they've expressed to me how frustrating it is to find them a "good girl", I've tried explaining to them that while they're chasing Becky the girl of their dreams has been there for them the whole time.

You can blame it on the media, hip hop, urban culture whatever for your image of the ideal woman but please don't complain about your chick being as dumb as a door nob because you didn't hold her to be higher then that when you decided to pursue. If your standards for dating are as simple as her meeting your cup size requirements, how dare you ask for anymore.

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...AND YES! I am using Lauren London to represent "basic chicks". Anyone who is quick to say (in a magazine interview I might add) that she wants a "gangster" and that a dangerous man is what turns her on is BASIC.

It seems as thought qualities like ambition, determination, loyalty and down right lady like manners don't amount to anything anymore. There's no need to compare what your woman will do fo you to what your mother does. If you do find yourself a quality girl she WILL seem like superwoman and have you in awe with how she manages to get it all done. YOU should be ONE of her many priorites not the ONLY!

My advice to you is to STOP the madness! Barbies aren't who you want to wife so lets stop giving them that idea that being a Barbie is cool. Gentlemen you have a responsibility to live up to be the ideal man your ideal woman wants. Please get the notion of "im going to do me, then find her when im ready" out of your head. Just as much as you get turned off when finding out that you're "dream girl" has been passed around, believe it or not women get that same feeling!

It's time we start ACTING like LADIES AND GENTLEMEN if that's what we're trying to attract!